| The Intermediate Level |
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| Tuesday, 09 September 2008 01:48 |
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INTERMEDIATE: In the intermediate level, I've grouped additional hints and tricks that can make your blowjob better for everyone involved. To deal with truly recalcitrant motherfuckers who absolutely will not finish, consult the Advanced section. Some of this is actually easier than the stuff in the "Beginner" section, but I put it here on the theory that adding more frosting to a bad cake isn't really helpful to anyone at the birthday party. 1. Play with his balls while you suck -- If you're familiar with the contents of the Beginner section, you'll already be able to cradle his balls as you give head; a simple addition to this is to play with them, gently, as you suck. The usual (I think?) way to do this is to roll your fingers, like you're playing with peace balls. 2. The Wrist Twist -- The big intermediate move: as you stroke his dick while giving head, twist your wrist. You want to make this a two-part movement that synchronizes with the rest of the BJ, so you can keep your rhythm; for example, twist left on the downstroke, right on the upstroke. A little weird at first, but not actually all that difficult per se. I have talked to dudes who use this move to distinguish an expert BJ from one that is merely good. 3. The Double Wrist-Twist -- A variation on the wrist-twist, this involves using both your hands to stroke and twisting your wrists in opposite directions. (i.e. down -- right wrist twists left, left wrist twists right; up -- right wrist twists right, left wrist twists left) A dude need not be super-long for this to work; unless he's truly endowed, this will probably involve using just one or two fingers from each hand. 4. Lick his Balls -- One of the classics, right? You can gently take his balls into your mouth one at a time to suck and lick, or lick them all over; my favorite variation on this is probably to lap upward along the seam between his balls with small tensed-tongue strokes, from back to front. 5. Just behind his balls -- Just behind a man's balls, on the forward end of the space between testacles and anus, is a fun place to play with; pressure here with your fingers or pointed tongue can indirectly stimulate his prostate, so be sure to play a little. And speaking of prostate stimulation -- 6. Ass play -- Ok, some people are freaked out by the very idea. This is, in any event, something I've only ever done by request - but this is how you go about it: With wet/lubed clean finger(s) with clipped nail(s), first gently tickle or massage his asshole. If the reception is good, you can try some penetration; your palm should be curved along the seam of his ass, fingers crooked toward yourself as you slide them into him. If all goes well to the second knuckle and he still seems to be into it, bend your penetrating finger further down - like you're trying to touch your palm. This will crook your finger or fingers into his prostate. Be gentle in there. 7. Go Deep -- I'll preface this: I'm not really a deepthroater. Even if you - like me - can't go all the way down all the time, though, going as deep as you can sometimes for variety can be very exciting for a guy you're going down on. Of possible help to readers, though: I've recently made some progress with the whole "going deep" thing, and so far my strides forward have involved the following: First of all, the common wisdom is that you should "swallow" when the dick hits the back of your mouth, but this is frankly not the case. The movement involved is much closer to - at the risk of seeming unladylike - belching on cue. If you can't burp on command, the muscles I'm talking about are the lower end of the set you use when you make the noise commonly transcribed in english as "gulp." Second, positioning is very very important. You want to be in a position where you can tilt your head back as far as possible, creating a single clean line for the dick to penetrate. Otherwise, the back of your throat is a 90 degree angle; most normally-shaped dicks simply do not bend that far. Third, in order to get a dick past the back of your throat it helps to keep it to the far left or far right side of your mouth. That's all my findings for now; if you can go deep on every stroke, I tip my hat to you. 8. Use your tits -- If you've got the rack for it, you can hold your breasts together and use them to stroke him (or allow him to thrust between them) while you lick or suck the head of his cock. |
Comments (3)
1. Kissing around my cock. Maybe it's just because I'm kind of ticklish there but I just love it when a women kisses my lower stomach and my inner thighs when she's giving me head. And women don't do this nearly enough. In fact I've only ever met one woman who did this without me telling her, and I've told almost every one since. Girls seem to respond equally well when I do the same to them.
2. Ball sucking. Some girls know how to suck my balls to the point where it actually feels like I'm having orgasms non stop. It's almost unbearable. However, other girls don't even feel good when doing this. What is the technique that sets them apart? It's perhaps one of the most enjoyable feelings I've ever experienced during sex, yet I don't know how to instruct a woman to do it correctly. Any thoughts?
Excellent website. Great job!
For instance, sometimes a girl will be going down on me, and then for some reason or another, she will do something that doesn't feel properly stimulating, and then my cock starts going limp. Most girls will panic and either start going faster with the same thing or (the worst thing to do ever) ask me what's wrong. Obviously, panicky stuff should be avoided at all costs. I'm sure you've got some techniques to put up there, but my favorite has to be lightly, but firmly, slapping my cock with her tongue, breast, cheek, or lips, with the striking locus being the frenulum.
As far as finishing, I think the most important thing is that no matter where they have a man cum and what they do with it, they should take enjoyment from it. For example, I knew this girl who would have me cum on her tits, and rub it in so she could smell me on her all day.
For the intermediate level section, I would add two things. Caressing the lower belly (not rubbing). This one can be done as is with a free hand or in tandem with the wrist twist or double-wrist twist, as which ever hand is at the base of the penis, can release grip and flare out to perform the caress at the terminus of the down-stroke, then caress again and re-grip on the up-stroke (having nails helps). The second, is that you can also squeeze your rackwith the upper arms while givin head, as a way of creating a visual frame, or if you can manage caressing the balls with them while giving head.
Again, your guide is appreciated, as I'm sure you've taken your own free time to maintain the site, and has helped plenty of girls out.